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Nothing compares to the freedom of… | by Raena McQueen | PARTYOFONERSVP | Medium
Once upon a time, I would’ve loved to be in a relationship — and I have been in a couple — but being single is so much better. Dealing with people stresses me out in general, but do you know how…
All My Single Ladies. Once upon a time, I would’ve loved to be in a relationship — and I have been in a couple — but being single is so much better.Dealing with people stresses me out in general, but do you know how tiresome being in a relationship actually is? The constant phone calls, the length of phone calls, the arguments, the demands, the lack of reciprocity. The accusations, no space to breathe, no time to yourself… It’s horrible. You couldn’t pay me enough to be in another relationship. It’s like a prison, everything you do has to be run by your partner before you do it, or else you’re seen as selfish and inconsiderate. You have to be mindful of your interactions, and you can’t even compliment people without it being an issue. If you’re too nice to people, it’s seen as flirting, and now all of a sudden, you’re “disrespecting your relationship.” And speaking of disrespect, I’ve learned that most people can’t take what they dish out. They’ll cheat on you (often more than once) and beg you to take them back, but if you even wave at somebody else, they’re ready to throw you in the trash. They’ll string you along and use you for personal gain, and as soon as they don’t need you, they’ll bounce. They’ll lie to you, manipulate you, and humiliate you — even though you’ve done nothing but try to love them. So what’s the point of being in a relationship? It’s not a good thing at all. Even the people who look seemingly happy aren’t doing too good. You’d be surprised at how many people are blissfully unaware that their partners ain’t shit, and even when they find out, they’re in immediate denial. Some people will put up with anything just to say they have somebody, and it’s sad. I don’t know. I just feel like my peace and self-respect come first. And if I did consider entering another relationship, after what I’ve been through, I’m not settling for anyone who doesn’t check off everything on my list. I’d rather die alone than to make compromises for someone who doesn’t even deserve to breathe my air. I’m not giving a chance to anyone who doesn’t meet my criteria, and I definitely don’t do second chances — so if you get that first chance and fuck up, that’s it! I’ll admit that my criteria is insanely high, however, it’s like that on purpose. If y’all knew what my standards were, there’s no way anyone would ever be able to reach them, and that’s what makes rejecting people even easier. I’m not really interested in dating at all. Not seriously, anyway. I love being single. It’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. To sum it up, I can s ay what I want, i gnore who I want, n egotiate with who I want, g et who I want, l ike who I want, and e njoy life as I please!
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All my single ladies
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